![]() Since a stay-at-home mom is always at the beck and call of her child, slowly a child also starts taking his mother for granted. The child becomes overly dependent on mother for all his requirements.Even when the baby is taking nap, a mother has an urge to finish cooking, folding laundry, cleaning up house and other such small jobs before the baby needs resumes. For a mother the first few years of child life is all about catering to his needs. “What a monotonous life I have!” Truth be told, such thought often comes across a homemaker’s mind.The result- you have enough time for yourself and your husband. You are not burned out or trying to squeeze in time for grocery shopping, doctor visit etc. Since you are at home the whole day, the household chores are done at the right time.And not to mention the money you save which would be otherwise spent on a childcare provider. Additionally, a SAHM mother provides a stable, consistent, nurturing and a relaxed atmosphere in the home, conducive to child’s growth. Its very comforting for the kid too to know that one of the parent is always around.A hands-on mom would never miss her baby’s first milestone and actively participates in his early grooming years- be it accompanying him to playdates, park or swimming lessons. You have the whole day at your disposal to enjoy your kid growing up years.Sometimes the relationship with your spouse takes a hit as work, home and child takes away all the attention away from him.Those leisure visits to spa keep getting postponed because whatever free time is available, you would want to spend with your kid. Besides, it’s hard to find “me time” for yourself. Shifting gears between work and job takes a toll on your health too.On other occasions you feel bad when instaed of you, your maid is first person to witness your child’s milestone. It breaks your heart when you have to leave your sick child at home in care of a nanny because you have an important meeting at the office. One can even observe that a kid of working mother becomes independent faster than the kids of SAHM. Every child respects her mother but when he sees how his mother is juggling smartly between home and work, the respect grows manifold.A person’s ability to bring an inflow of steady income along with managing kids and house is directly proportionate to the acclaim she receives. ![]()
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